Today

I came to Switzerland with certain expectations: order, respect, and a generally high awareness of rules. But honestly, my experience as a sex worker in this short time has been quite disappointingly

What has shocked me the most is how often clients try to push for things without protection. It's especially disturbing in a country where sexual health awareness is supposed to be high. This is not just uncomfortable — it's a lack of respect for boundaries, consent, and safety.

Another issue is the constant pressure. Some clients don't accept a clear boundary. They keep insisting, repeating themselves, as if pressure could eventually replace consent. But it doesn't. Consent is not something you negotiate through persistence.

And let me be very clear: I will not expose myself or risk my health for anyone's desires. My job does not cancel my right to safety. It does not mean accepting unsafe practices. And it absolutely does not mean that payment gives anyone control over my body or decisions.

What concerns me most is this mindset — the idea that insisting is normal, that boundaries can be pushed, or that money overrides consent. It doesn't. That attitude is disrespectful, irresponsible, and shows a serious lack of understanding of sexual health and basic respect.

Of course, this isn't everyone in Switzerland. But it is what I'm experiencing, and it needs to be said. Because this kind of pressure is more common than people think — and I refuse to normalize it.